Tuesday, 30 September 2014

10 Things To Do When You Need a Break From Wedding Planning

Planning a wedding is one of the most exciting things you will do in your life, being able to piece together all of your hopes and dreams and inspirations into one magical day.  With all this excitement, however, comes a lot of work.  And sometimes it can all get a bit overwhelming.  So today's post is a list of fun ideas of things to do when all things wedding becomes a bit too much and you just need a break.  Enjoy!



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1. Bake a cake.







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2. Go for a walk and just be outside.  (Furry friend optional)







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3. Be silly with your loved ones.


Monday, 29 September 2014

Why Spending 3 Nights a Week in a Night Club is Good for My Health

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Picture the scene...

The music is pumping.

The strobe lights are flashing.

The atmosphere is electric.

Bodies in tight clothes are stumbling across the dance floor which is strewn with the usual assortment of kettlebells, barbells and dumb bells... wait, WHAT!?

Yes, you did read that correctly.

The Shed night club in Glasgow's South Side is the home of Core Fitness Boot Camp, and my latest Sweatin' for the Weddin' effort.

The classes themselves follow a traditional circuit format with 12 outer stations and 6 inner stations with an emphasis on strength training.  We bootcampers work our way round lifting, pushing, pulling, squatting and planking to the command of Patrick, founder and owner of Core Fitness. And possibly the most enthusiastic man I've ever met. Each station lasts one minute with no time to rest.  After completing 12 stations we are gifted a 30 second breather and water break before moving on to the next round.  Each session consists of 4 rounds, with each more intense than the last.

Having been through a fair few body pump sessions I thought I was, you know, pretty strong... for a lady.  I thought I'd be in with a fair shout.  How wrong I was.  See, that's the thing about boot camp - any fitness you thought y0u had instantly evaporates (along with your latest wave of sweat).  Every session I think, "That was the toughest" only to be swiftly proven wrong the next time.  My body is literally pushed to its absolute limit every time.  By the end of each session I'm completely (there's no other word for it) gubbed.  Yet, as I struggle to find the strength to turn the ignition in my car, a wave of endorphins rushes through my body.  A big grin appears on my face.  I can't wait to do it all over again.

Thursday, 25 September 2014

6 Years In The Making...

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Today marks 6 years since Paul asked me to his girlfriend.  Good effort, eh?  Now that we’re engaged to be married I have a totally different view on this anniversary.  Previously my thoughts would be, “3 years together, that’s the longest I’ve been in a relationship, I wonder how many more there will be?”  As I’ve now agreed to be his wife and spend the rest of my life with him it’s kind of a relief that I don’t need to think about it anymore.  One less thing to worry about.  I probably could have said that a lot more eloquently but today’s post is more of a ramble on my feelings at this 6 year stage in our relationship as opposed to something I’ve actually planned out and considered in depth before writing.  Oh well.

Tuesday, 13 May 2014

Wedding Survival Kit – 7 Handbag Essentials

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Wedding season is well and truly upon us. There’s no denying it. This means we ladies are now faced with the dilemma of fitting our lives we carry around day to day into a significantly smaller handbag. No one wants to lug their tote bag to a wedding.  So I’ve compiled this list of my top 7 handbag essentials to get me through any wedding. I hope you find some inspiration and be sure to let me know in the comments what you like to keep in your handbag when going to a wedding.

Now, there are two key points which have to be kept in mind when packing your handbag. Firstly, due to the use of the smaller bag you’ll have to be tactical in deciding what makes the cut and what doesn’t. Secondly, and perhaps more importantly, weddings are looooooooooong. As happy and joyous an occasion as they are there’s no denying that it’s quite a shift. So, you need to be prepared to last the whole day.

1. Spare Tights

Being a UK resident, typically despite the sun being out it’s generally still pretty fresh. So I tend to wear tights. And as I’ll inevitably ladder them at some point in my un-ladylike attempt to pull them up a spare pair are a must.

2. Mobile Phone

No explanation necessary.

Monday, 12 May 2014

THE LEGAL STUFF

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Those of you who have been reading this blog for a while all know that here at The Lady Said Yes it’s all the fun girly bits of wedding planning that we talk about and enjoy.  But at the end of the day none of that really matters if you don’t get the legal stuff sorted.  I mean, that’s why we’re here.  Because we want to legally declare our love to our partner and tell the world all about it.

I realise this post is a little more dull than usual but I promise to make it as quick and painless as possible, giving you the facts you need.

So let’s get cracking.

Sunday, 11 May 2014

A Truly Pinterest-esque Wedding Show

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Do you spend more time than you should perusing Pinterest, pinning all the wonderful wedding bits for inspiration?  Do you then start attending wedding fairs and looking at suppliers only to realise you can’t find what you’ve pinned?   You then find yourself wondering if these beautify quirky supplier actually exist in real life?  Or are they just created in internet land to taunt us?

 

FEAR NOT!

 

I’ve found them.

 

And they’re right here, in Glasgow.

Sunday, 20 April 2014

An Irish Wedding


Last weekend, Paul and I travelled across to Belfast to attend the wedding of Craig and Julia.  I was going to write a long descriptive post but I thought it would be better to let the photos speak for themselves.  Enjoy!

An Irish Wedding


Last weekend, Paul and I travelled across to Belfast to attend the wedding of Craig and Julia.  I was going to write a long descriptive post but I thought it would be better to let the photos speak for themselves.  Enjoy!




Thursday, 17 April 2014

How To Write Your Wedding Guest List


For some brides to be writing their guest list can be one of the most stressful parts of planning their wedding.  Trying to keep everyone happy, figuring out who you “should” invite and staying within the numbers you can afford can be exceptionally mind-boggling.  In an attempt to remedy this, I have compiled a series of steps for you to follow along with some food for thought at the end.  It has worked so far for me so I hope it will for you too!


1.      Work out how many guests you can afford

 

It is critical that this is your first step.  You need to know how many guests you can comfortably pay for, and stick to this number.  Another consideration is the maximum number of guests your venue can hold.


2.      Write a 1st draft with your partner

 

Either separately or together, you should sit down with your husband to be and write out a rough list of all those you want to have at your wedding. Just do a quick brainstorm and get the names down on paper.  Then, discuss each guest and make sure you’re both happy with them being on the list.  Any disagreements or guests you’re not sure about should be placed on the ‘maybe’ list and discussed later.


3.      Consult Your Parents

 

Whether or not your parents are paying for all or part of your wedding it is still polite to discuss your guest list with them.  They might have some people up their sleeve who have slipped your mind.  Although, it is important to respect your parents’ decisions, bare in mind that this is your wedding and not theirs.  If they are being forceful/overpowering with your guest list just kindly remind them that your numbers are limited and you want to invite those most important to you.


How To Write Your Wedding Guest List



For some brides to be writing their guest list can be one of the most stressful parts of planning their wedding.  Trying to keep everyone happy, figuring out who you “should” invite and staying within the numbers you can afford can be exceptionally mind-boggling.  In an attempt to remedy this, I have compiled a series of steps for you to follow along with some food for thought at the end.  It has worked so far for me so I hope it will for you too!

1.      Work out how many guests you can afford

It is critical that this is your first step.  You need to know how many guests you can comfortably pay for, and stick to this number.  Another consideration is the maximum number of guests your venue can hold.

2.      Write a 1st draft with your partner

Either separately or together, you should sit down with your husband to be and write out a rough list of all those you want to have at your wedding. Just do a quick brainstorm and get the names down on paper.  Then, discuss each guest and make sure you’re both happy with them being on the list.  Any disagreements or guests you’re not sure about should be placed on the ‘maybe’ list and discussed later. 

Tuesday, 15 April 2014

What To Wear To A Wedding



Having just been to a wedding this weekend (more on that later in the week) and had to find something to wear, I thought it would be fitting to write a blog post on what to wear to a wedding.  I’ve basically narrowed it down to a few key tips and if you follow them you won’t go far wrong.


1.    It has to be classy


I mean, let’s face it, a wedding is pretty much the classiest event most of us get to go to.  (I don’t know about you but I’m still patiently awaiting my red carpet invitation)  So, make the most of it!  Get yourself kitted up in your classiest dress and work it!


2.    This doesn’t mean it has to be expensive…


You can be craftily classy with the right fabrics and cuts, without having to spend a small fortune.  All you need is a keen eye.  The dress I’m wearing was snatched from the sale rail at Dorothy Perkins for a whopping £12! But sshhhh…


What To Wear To A Wedding



Having just been to a wedding this weekend (more on that later in the week) and had to find something to wear, I thought it would be fitting to write a blog post on what to wear to a wedding.  I’ve basically narrowed it down to a few key tips and if you follow them you won’t go far wrong.

1.    It has to be classy

I mean, let’s face it, a wedding is pretty much the classiest event most of us get to go to.  (I don’t know about you but I’m still patiently awaiting my red carpet invitation)  So, make the most of it!  Get yourself kitted up in your classiest dress and work it!

2.    This doesn’t mean it has to be expensive…

You can be craftily classy with the right fabrics and cuts, without having to spend a small fortune.  All you need is a keen eye.  The dress I’m wearing was snatched from the sale rail at Dorothy Perkins for a whopping £12! But sshhhh…

Sunday, 13 April 2014

Sweatin' For The Weddin' - Blogilates


Welcome to this month’s edition of Sweatin’ For The Weddin’.  Like most brides to be I am keen to get in shape for my wedding day.  I created this monthly series to share how I’m currently Sweatin’ and hopefully provide some inspiration for those of you who aren’t sure what to do.


You’re probably thinking what’s Blogilates?  Pilates just for bloggers?  Pilates and blogging at the same time?


Blogilates is many things.  Essentially, it is a series of online Pilates lessons taught by Cassey Ho, the bounciest, bubbliest Pilates instructor you’ll ever meet.  Cassey has created literally hundreds of fun workout videos and posted them on her blog and YouTube channel…for free!  If you’re not sure which videos to do Cassey has got you covered.  By signing up to her free newsletter you receive the top secret password to allow you to download each month’s printable calendar.  The calendar works by allocating each day of the week to different body parts such as abs, legs or butt.  There will be a series of videos to do that day to work that particular area.  You just work through them, tick them off, sign your name and BOOM!  Workout complete.


Now, I have to be honest with you.  These workouts can be TOUGH.  If you’re finding them too hard there is a beginner’s calendar to break you in more slowly.  But bear in mind that you should feel challenged.  Workouts are supposed to push you, otherwise you won’t improve.  As Cassey says, ‘Train Insane or Remain the Same.’


Sweatin' For The Weddin' - Blogilates


Welcome to this month’s edition of Sweatin’ For The Weddin’.  Like most brides to be I am keen to get in shape for my wedding day.  I created this monthly series to share how I’m currently Sweatin’ and hopefully provide some inspiration for those of you who aren’t sure what to do.  

You’re probably thinking what’s Blogilates?  Pilates just for bloggers?  Pilates and blogging at the same time?

Blogilates is many things.  Essentially, it is a series of online Pilates lessons taught by Cassey Ho, the bounciest, bubbliest Pilates instructor you’ll ever meet.  Cassey has created literally hundreds of fun workout videos and posted them on her blog and YouTube channel…for free!  If you’re not sure which videos to do Cassey has got you covered.  By signing up to her free newsletter you receive the top secret password to allow you to download each month’s printable calendar.  The calendar works by allocating each day of the week to different body parts such as abs, legs or butt.  There will be a series of videos to do that day to work that particular area.  You just work through them, tick them off, sign your name and BOOM!  Workout complete. 

Now, I have to be honest with you.  These workouts can be TOUGH.  If you’re finding them too hard there is a beginner’s calendar to break you in more slowly.  But bear in mind that you should feel challenged.  Workouts are supposed to push you, otherwise you won’t improve.  As Cassey says, ‘Train Insane or Remain the Same.’

Thursday, 10 April 2014

Wedding Checklist – What to do and when – Part 6: 1 Week To Go + FREE PRINTABLE



It’s one week til the wedding and your brain is in overdrive with all the last minute things you’ve got to do.  So as not to take up too much of your time this post is short and sweet.  Enjoy!

1.     Pack honeymoon clothes

2.     Collect your dress

3.     Collect the groom’s outfit

4.     Re-confirm times and places with suppliers

5.     Have a wedding rehearsal

6.     Enjoy last minute beauty treatments such as a spray tan and mani-pedi’s!

7.     Decorate your venue (if doing so yourself)

8.     Send luggage to wedding night hotel

9.     Remind your fiancé to write his speech

Thank you for making it to the final part of the wedding checklist series.  As a reward for sticking with it for the past 6 weeks I have created a FREE checklist for you to download.  You can choose either the PDF or Excel Sheet.  Don’t say I’m not good to you…



Let me know how you get on with the checklist.  Is there anything else you would include?

Happy Planning!


Maxine xxx

Wedding Checklist – What to do and when – Part 6: 1 Week To Go + FREE PRINTABLE



It’s one week til the wedding and your brain is in overdrive with all the last minute things you’ve got to do.  So as not to take up too much of your time this post is short and sweet.  Enjoy!

1.     Pack honeymoon clothes

2.     Collect your dress

3.     Collect the groom’s outfit

4.     Re-confirm times and places with suppliers

5.     Have a wedding rehearsal

6.     Enjoy last minute beauty treatments such as a spray tan and mani-pedi’s!

7.     Decorate your venue (if doing so yourself)

8.     Send luggage to wedding night hotel

9.     Remind your fiancé to write his speech

Thank you for making it to the final part of the wedding checklist series.  As a reward for sticking with it for the past 6 weeks I have created a FREE checklist for you to download.  You can choose either the PDF or Excel Sheet.  Don’t say I’m not good to you…



Let me know how you get on with the checklist.  Is there anything else you would include?

Happy Planning!


Maxine xxx

Tuesday, 8 April 2014

Loch Lomond Wedding Exhibition, Saturday 5th April 2014


 My maid of honour, Stephanie, and I ventured out in to the wind and rain on Saturday to attend the Loch Lomond Wedding Exhibition.  A large marquee was set up in the overflow car park at Loch Lomond Shores packed full of suppliers.  After having a brief chat with one of the wedding car suppliers we dashed inside to the warm and dry.  We were immediately greeted with a hive of activity.  There were over 100 stalls showing off the weird and wonderful services of each supplier standing proudly in front.  This was by far the biggest wedding show I have attended so far.  We made our way round in as logical an order as we could so as not to miss anything.


With so many suppliers present there was definitely room for the more extravagant and the less traditional.  These included firework displays, alcoholic slush machines and a magician who costs £200 to keep your guests occupied while you get your photos taken!  Walking around and taking all this in made me reflect on just how easy it is for a wedding budget to go way off the chart.  Perhaps I’m being a little cynical but I know for my wedding I’ll be sticking to the more “standard” suppliers and services.  For me, a wedding is an expensive day anyway.  I don’t really want to add more fuel to an already blazing fire.  That’s my opinion.  What’s yours?  Do you feel the extras enhance your wedding day?  Or do you think they burn a hole in your budget?  I’d love to hear both sides of the story.


Now, back to the wedding show and the wonderful suppliers who caught my attention.


Loch Lomond Wedding Exhibition, Saturday 5th April 2014


 My maid of honour, Stephanie, and I ventured out in to the wind and rain on Saturday to attend the Loch Lomond Wedding Exhibition.  A large marquee was set up in the overflow car park at Loch Lomond Shores packed full of suppliers.  After having a brief chat with one of the wedding car suppliers we dashed inside to the warm and dry.  We were immediately greeted with a hive of activity.  There were over 100 stalls showing off the weird and wonderful services of each supplier standing proudly in front.  This was by far the biggest wedding show I have attended so far.  We made our way round in as logical an order as we could so as not to miss anything.

With so many suppliers present there was definitely room for the more extravagant and the less traditional.  These included firework displays, alcoholic slush machines and a magician who costs £200 to keep your guests occupied while you get your photos taken!  Walking around and taking all this in made me reflect on just how easy it is for a wedding budget to go way off the chart.  Perhaps I’m being a little cynical but I know for my wedding I’ll be sticking to the more “standard” suppliers and services.  For me, a wedding is an expensive day anyway.  I don’t really want to add more fuel to an already blazing fire.  That’s my opinion.  What’s yours?  Do you feel the extras enhance your wedding day?  Or do you think they burn a hole in your budget?  I’d love to hear both sides of the story.

Now, back to the wedding show and the wonderful suppliers who caught my attention.

Thursday, 3 April 2014

Wedding Checklist – What to do and when – Part 5: 1 Month To Go




It’s only one month til the wedding day!  How did that happen!?  Excitement and nerves are on the rise.  To calm those nerves here’s a straight forward checklist for you to work with.  You've got plenty of stuff going through your wee brain just now so this is a quick no nonsense post to get you through.


The theme this week is confirming and discussing.  Most of the activities involve doing one or the other or both.  Now is the time to make sure all of your suppliers understand their expectations and you understand theirs.


Wedding Checklist – What to do and when – Part 5: 1 Month To Go



It’s only one month til the wedding day!  How did that happen!?  Excitement and nerves are on the rise.  To calm those nerves here’s a straight forward checklist for you to work with.  You've got plenty of stuff going through your wee brain just now so this is a quick no nonsense post to get you through.

The theme this week is confirming and discussing.  Most of the activities involve doing one or the other or both.  Now is the time to make sure all of your suppliers understand their expectations and you understand theirs.

Venue

-        Confirm your menu (or if you have an external caterer confirm with them)

-        Confirm seating plan, this means you have to chase those RSVPs you haven’t yet received

-        Provide copies of contracts with relevant suppliers along with contact details and timings

-        Confirm the timings and running order of the day

Suppliers

-        Confirm co-ordination for on the day e.g. delivery time, set-up, responsibilities

-        Confirm playlist with your band/DJ.  They have had enough time to source your music or come up with alternatives to discuss with you

-        Discuss shot list/brief with the photographer

To Buy

-        Clothes shopping for your honeymoon! 

-        Thank you gifts for your wedding party

Beautification

-        Book any beauty treatments you want for the big day such as nails and a spray tan

-        Book you last hair cut/colour appointment before the wedding

-        Have a final dress fitting with shoes and accessories

-        Wear in your wedding shoes around the house

Miscellaneous
-        Go over ‘on the day’ duties with the usher, best man and maid of honour

-        Write your vows if you plan on reciting your own


-        Throw awesome hen and stag parties!

And that's it!

Check back next Thursday for the FINAL installment and a wonderful prize for all of you for sticking with
the series until the end!




Maxine xxx